When marriage feels like a parent child relationship

How often do you nag your partner? Do you ever have to request the basics, as though they are a child?

Splitting – My relationship feels really intense

Intensity in relationships can feel intoxicating, especially at the beginning. Passions are high, sex is new and you are constantly thinking or talking about your new love. But what happens when this intensity causes negative consequences such as anxiety, arguments or extreme anger? And what should you do if you get stuck in the cycle of ‘break up and make up’, as so many couples do?

Splitting – my partner seems hot and cold

Our relationships are complicated and ever-shifting. Dynamics between couples (and extended family and friends) are highly sophisticated and challenging. One moment your relationship can be a beacon of positivity, love and affection. And just like that… in the blink of an eye… it can feel like a tornado has hit.

Should I Tell My Partner Everything – When Are Secrets Okay?

It’s no secret that many couples hide things from each other. In fact, research has shown that 1 in 5 people admit to keeping a major secret from their romantic partner. My question is, even though it is common, is secret-keeping ever ok?

My partner is cheating on me – I feel like dying inside

I was recently asked an interesting question. What is worse… your partner cheating? Or your partner dying? They seem to be quite unordinary comparisons, right? However, I found it to be a fair question and one worthy of attention. After some thought and discussion, what became clear to me was that there is tremendous overlap between both tragedies. This might explain why you feel like you’re dying inside when you discover infidelity or even wish your partner were dead. Reactions like these are completely understandable and certainly worth some exploration.

How power dynamics influence your relationship

In all relationships exists a delicate balance of power. All interactions between partners influence this power, and direct the relationship a certain way. Bringing these power dynamics to the surface of our consciousness can help us to better understand ourselves and each other, and create a healthier dynamic.