Acute crisis couples therapy, family therapy and psychotherapy M.A. in Copenhagen. Book your sessions in-person and online.
Acute crisis couples therapy or urgent couples counselling in Copenhagen is for when you feel your relationship is going through a very difficult time, and you need immediate support – either together or separately.
Choose expert couples therapist Mark Colclough, when only the best is good enough for you.
Mark Colclough is fully trained and qualified:
- Graduated in 2011 as a psychotherapist from the University of East London, earning a Master of Arts with Merit
- Gained further qualification with two years of additional training as a couples therapist – completing specialist training available only to psychologists and psychotherapists
- Received advanced training as a family therapist, providing expert assistance to families in need
- Has over ten years of experience representing and advising clients navigating the Danish legal system, Familieretshuset and Family Courts
- Has participated in specialized workshops and further training in:
- Attachment theory
- Addiction recovery
- Jungian personality styles
- Jungian psychoanalysis
- Business coaching
- Has been seeing clients since 2004 – over 20 years of professional experience
- Has Danish and international lecturing and teaching experience, assisting student psychotherapists in their education
- Subscribes to and follows the ethical standards of the BACP, UKCP, and EFPP
- Has received regular supervision since 2008, so standards in the therapy room are maintained
I am deeply grateful to the thousands of individuals who have shared their journeys with me – their relationships, marriages, struggles, and triumphs – in the safe and compassionate space that therapy provides.
It would be my privilege to welcome you into couples therapy and guide you both towards rediscovering your true self, your potential, and the profound depth within you.
Warmly,
Questions before booking in Copenhagen?
Du er velkommen til at ringe på +4561488488 eller skrive en e-mail til hello@therapy-mark.com if you have any questions or would like to learn more prior to booking your acute crisis couples therapy or urgent couples counselling with Mark.
I have answered the most frequently asked questions (FAQ about acute crisis couples therapy in Copenhagen) in the short posts below.
Your urgent acute couples therapy or relations counselling takes place from Møntergade 4, 3rd floor Copenhagen K, and Smørmosetoften 8, 5700 Svendborg as well as online.
FAQ: Acute Crisis Couples Therapy in Copenhagen
What is acute crisis couples therapy?
Your relationship is in crisis, and you need help now.
Acute crisis couples therapy is for both of you when everything feels like it is falling apart.
Whether you are facing betrayal, a sudden breakup, or a conflict that has spiraled out of control, this is not slow, traditional therapy.
This is an immediate, structured intervention to help you regain control before things get worse.
You do not have time to wait.
You need clarity, guidance, and a way forward—now.
This therapy helps you stabilize emotions, stop destructive patterns, and decide what happens next.
Whether you want to rebuild trust or find a path forward separately, you will leave with concrete steps, not just more questions.
Acute crisis couples therapy with Mark Colclough M.A..
Regardless of the title, whenever only the best trained and expertly experienced couples therapist is good enough, and you feel your personal growth deserves qualified assistance.
We can start with a 15 minute phone call, or you are welcome to go straight ahead and book your session. Both take place in my online booking calendar listed on this page.
I offer fully bilingual and bicultural expat couples therapy as well as personal psychotherapy.
Born and raised in London, my family relocated to Denmark when I was a teenager.
Since, I have been schooled and trained in Denmark and England. I have lived in 9 different countries across 4 continents.
Each couples therapy session is tailored to your needs – especially in a crisis
All evidence shows that your relationship—to your partner and yourself—holds the healing potential in couples therapy.
Beyond that, it is the authentic connection and dialogue between the three of us that sets the tone for lasting change.
In the therapy room, we create a space where you both can show up fully – exactly as you are.
Your crisis session will be tailored to your needs -especially as you are in a crisis.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach when your relationship is on the line.
Whether you are facing betrayal, conflict, or uncertainty, the focus is on what will help you most in this moment.
As your couples therapist and relationship counselor, I walk alongside you, helping you discover new possibilities, deepen self-awareness, and recognize the resources you already hold within.
100% money back guarantee
Your satisfaction and comfort are my top priorities to ensure you both feel safe and supported in our work together.
About halfway through your first session, I will check in with you both. If, for any reason, you are not satisfied with my approach and do not feel we are making progress, I will offer you both a full refund of your initial payment – with no questions asked and no conditions.
Det er afgørende, at du føler dig tryg og sikker i at fortsætte, og hvis vi ikke er det rette match, ønsker jeg at sikre, at du føler dig støttet i din beslutning.
Still in doubt?
If any of you have doubts about undertaking a crisis couples therapy session, including whether it’s the right step for you, it’s important to ask questions and explore your concerns.
You can book a free 15 minute call with me for an initial consultation to discuss what you’re feeling and what you hope to achieve.
This conversation will help you clarify how acute crisis couples therapy can benefit you each and ensure that you’re comfortable with the process.
At tage det første skridt til at undersøge mulighederne kan guide dig mod den omsorg og støtte, du har brug for, når du har mest brug for det.
Mark, Your calendar is fully booked. Can you make space for an emergency session?
Yes, I can make space for an emergency session. When you are in crisis, getting help cannot wait.
That is why I keep **reserved slots** specifically for urgent situations like yours. If you need support now, I will find a way to make time.
Please reach out to me directly, and we will set up a session as soon as possible.
**You both do not have to go through this alone – I am here to help.**
I think I am having a breakdown. Can you support me with an emergency session on the phone?
Yes, I am available to support you over the phone for an emergency session. When everything feels too overwhelming to carry alone, reaching out is the right step.
You do not have to wait.
**I will make space to talk and help you through this difficult moment.**
My priority is to help you stabilize, regain a sense of calm, and find clarity.
Please reach out to me directly, and we will set up a call as soon as possible.
**Together, we will create a path forward – one step at a time.**
My partner has completely broken my trust, and I am dying inside. Can you help?
Trust is one of the hardest things to lose, and I understand how deeply painful and isolating this must feel. Right now, the pain may seem unbearable, but you do not have to face this alone – an emergency therapy session offers a safe and supportive space to begin your healing.
Together, we will work through the heartbreak, confusion, and overwhelming emotions step by step.
**Whether you want to repair your relationship together with your partner, or focus on finding strength for yourself, I will help you regain stability and clarity.**
Please reach out to me immediately.
**You do not have to go through this alone – help is here.**
How soon can we get help to stop our relationship from falling apart?
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When your relationship feels like it is unraveling, starting therapy soon is essential. I can offer you both a session as soon as my calendar allows, prioritizing your need for immediate help.
In our session, we will focus on stabilizing your relationship and creating a roadmap for healing. You do not have to face this alone—help is just a call away.
What can we do right now until the emergency session starts?
In moments of crisis, small, intentional actions can make a big difference. Taking just a few minutes to pause, breathe deeply, and focus on grounding yourself can help stabilize overwhelming emotions.
Until our emergency session, try to create a calm space where you can reflect or connect with Nature.
These small steps can provide temporary relief and help you feel more prepared for our work together.
Can I start by calling you alone, and then maybe we have a couples therapy later?
Yes, absolutely. Starting with an individual session is a great way to begin, especially if you feel more comfortable talking one-on-one first.
This approach allows us to explore your feelings, gain clarity, and understand your needs before moving into couples therapy.
Whether we continue individually or transition into joint sessions, the focus will always be on what feels most supportive for you.
Can we do this online?
Online terapi bringer den støtte, du har brug for, direkte hjem til dig og tilbyder fleksibilitet og bekvemmelighed uden at gå på kompromis med forbindelsen eller effektiviteten.
From the comfort of your own space, you (and your partner) can explore your emergency and address challenges with my guidance as your licensed therapist.
Virtuelle sessioner er lige så personlige og effektive og tilbyder redskaber og strategier, der er tilpasset dine unikke behov.
No matter where you are, online therapy makes it easier – fast.
Are you a couples therapist specializing in couples crisis?
Yes, I specialize in working with couples in crisis and have 20 years of experience providing first-hand intervention.
Over the years, I have helped countless couples navigate moments of intense difficulty, rebuild trust, and rediscover connection.
My approach is grounded in compassion and proven strategies tailored to the unique needs of each relationship.
You both do not have to face this alone—help is just a call away.
Does infidelity mean my relationship is over?
Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust, but it does not always mean your relationship is over.
I specialize in working with couples in crisis and have 20 years of experience providing first-hand intervention.
Right now, you are both in pain – one of you feels betrayed, and the other may be struggling with guilt, regret, or confusion.
**Over the years, I have helped countless couples navigate moments of intense difficulty, rebuild trust, and rediscover connection.**
Some relationships do not survive infidelity, but many do – with the right guidance and effort.
My approach is grounded in compassion and proven strategies, tailored to the unique needs of your relationship.
**You both do not have to face this alone—help is just a call away.**
Common themes, patterns & conflicts that require acute crisis couples therapy
Do you experience thoughts, feelings, and behaviours similar to the following?
If so, an acute crisis couples therapy session with Mark Colclough M.A. could be a good idea:
- You have just discovered an affair, and the shock feels unbearable.
- Trust has been shattered, and every conversation turns into an argument or silent resentment.
- One of you wants to repair the relationship, but the other is unsure or emotionally withdrawn.
- Explosive fights keep escalating, and you fear the relationship is at a breaking point.
- One of you has threatened to leave, or a breakup is already happening in real-time.
- You feel emotionally abandoned and unheard, leaving you in constant distress.
- There is a major betrayal—emotional, physical, or financial—that has left deep wounds.
- You are caught in a cycle of blame, guilt, and defensiveness, unable to move forward.
- One or both of you feel numb—too exhausted to fight, but also unable to reconnect.
- A past trauma, addiction, or mental health crisis is now threatening your relationship’s survival.
- You feel trapped—torn between staying for love, kids, or security and leaving for your own well-being.
- A secret has come to light that has completely changed how you see your partner.
- One of you keeps begging for forgiveness, but the other is too hurt to believe in change.
- You fear your partner is lying to you, but they continue to deny everything.
- You are desperate for help because you no longer know how to fix this on your own.
Common statements I hear at a crisis session!
As a couples therapist, I often hear statements like these, do any feel familiar to you?
If so, a crisis couples therapy with Mark Colclough M.A. could be a good idea:
Common statements I hear at a crisis session!
- “I cannot believe you did this to me—I will never trust you again!”
- “You have destroyed everything we built, and I do not know if I even love you anymore.”
- “I feel sick just looking at you, but I cannot imagine my life without you either.”
- “How long have you been lying to me? Was anything real between us?”
- “You betrayed me, and now you expect me to just get over it?!”
- “I hate you right now, but it hurts even more because I still love you.”
- “You have humiliated me—I feel like a complete fool.”
- “Do you even feel guilty? Or am I the only one suffering here?”
- “I do not think I will ever be able to touch you again.”
- “Every time you speak, all I hear are lies—I do not believe a word you say.”
- “I wish I could hurt you as much as you have hurt me!”
- “You are acting like this is no big deal—do you even care?”
- “I feel like I have been living with a stranger—who are you?”
- “You disgust me, but I also cannot walk away. What is wrong with me?”
- “I want to scream, cry, and run away all at the same time—I do not know what to do.”
Are either one of you thinking about divorce?
When a relationship feels stuck, broken, or beyond repair, the question of divorce can feel overwhelming.
Divorce is brutal.
Before you make a life-changing decision, consider this: have you explored every opportunity to reconnect and rebuild?
Parterapi kan hjælpe jer med at:
- Få klarhed over de grundlæggende problemer i jeres forhold.
- Improve communication to truly understand each other’s perspectives.
- Identify whether the challenges are fixable—or if separation is the best path forward.
Terapien handler ikke om at overtale jer til at blive sammen eller presse jer mod skilsmisse. Den handler om at give jer de værktøjer og indsigter, der gør det muligt at træffe den bedste beslutning for jeres fremtid – hvad enten det betyder at genopbygge forholdet eller gå hver til sit med respekt og forståelse.
Before you decide, let us talk. Couples therapy might be the step you need to move forward – together or apart – with confidence.
Those who fight together often grow together
Dem, der kæmper sammen, vokser ofte sammen. Når partnere konfronterer deres forskelle, kaster de lys over underliggende frustrationer, der kræver opmærksomhed.
Conflict isn’t simply a sign of trouble; it can be a powerful guidepost, revealing areas where both people can learn and adapt.
Ved at nærme sig uenigheder med medfølelse og nysgerrighed skaber par plads til dybere forståelse og mere ærlig kommunikation. Denne proces forvandler spændinger til en vej mod større tillid, intimitet og følelsesmæssig modstandskraft.
Ultimately, it’s through facing challenges side by side that partners learn to evolve and thrive together.
How do I explain these feelings to a therapist when I do not even understand them myself?
It is okay not to have the words to explain everything right now. Therapy is about making sense of feelings together, one step at a time.
You can start by simply sharing whatever comes to mind, no matter how scattered or unclear it feels.
My role as your therapist is to help you untangle these emotions, provide clarity, and create a safe space where you can begin to understand what you are going through.
You do not need to have all the answers to begin—just showing up is the first step toward healing.
How can we stop the constant fighting and tension between us?
Fighting and tension are probably feeling all-consuming, but they do not have to define your relationship. Emergency therapy offers a space where both of you can feel heard, understood, and supported.
We will work together to talk about the causes of conflict and build tools to navigate disagreements more constructively.
You deserve a relationship grounded in mutual respect, connection, and calm, and I am here to help you find that path.
You both do not have to face this alone—help is just a call away.
I feel like I am stuck between love and hate – is that normal?
Yes, it is completely normal to feel stuck between love and hate after betrayal.
One moment, you may long for the connection you once had; the next, you may feel consumed by anger, resentment, or disbelief.
**This emotional whiplash is part of the deep shock and pain of broken trust.**
You are trying to make sense of something that feels impossible to reconcile.
These conflicting emotions do not mean you are weak or broken—they mean you are human.
With the right support, you can process what you are feeling, regain clarity, and decide what is right for you.
You both do not have to face this alone.
How will crisis couples therapy work if one of us is not ready to fully participate?
Therapy can still be effective even if one partner is not fully ready to engage. We will begin by creating a supportive space that respects where each of you is in the process.
Progress often starts with small steps, and I will work to build trust and alignment at a pace that feels manageable.
To the one who is not fully ready I say, “It’s okay to just show up and sit there, you don’t have to say anything at all.”
The goal is to ensure both partners feel safe and supported, opening the door for deeper engagement over time.
How many sessions will it take for me / us to feel even a little better?
Just one! Many clients begin to feel a little better after just one session. Therapy provides immediate relief by addressing your most pressing concerns first.
Together, we will work at a pace that feels right for you, focusing on progress and clarity step by step.
The goal is to ensure that this first session brings meaningful insights and tangible steps toward healing.
Acute crisis couples therapy in Copenhagen K
Right in the middle of Copenhagen K, just 300 meters from Nørreport Station, and 300 meters from Kongens Nytorv Metro Station.
My clinic is situated right in the centre of Copenhagen K, in the so-called “Indre By”.
What is a couples therapist?
As a couples therapist or couples counsellor I am a trained professional who helps individuals, couples, and families address emotional and psychological challenges.
I am trained to listen carefully, ask clarifying questions, and offer new perspectives that can lead to meaningful change.
By employing evidence-based techniques, I help you both develop healthier coping strategies and improve communication.
As a professionally trained couples therapist I maintain confidentiality, provide a safe environment, and uphold ethical standards throughout the therapeutic process.
Ultimately, an expat couples therapist aims to guide you both toward greater self-awareness, well-being, and personal growth.
How can a couples therapist help us?
As your couples therapist I provide a safe, judgment-free space where you can share your concerns openly.
Through empathic listening and skilled questioning, I help you both identify underlying patterns, thoughts, or behaviors that might be causing distress.
I will teach you practical tools to manage anxiety, improve communication, or cope with challenging life transitions.
Over time, this collaborative process fosters greater self-awareness, emotional resilience, and a stronger sense of personal agency.
Working with a clear intention and goal, couples therapy will lead to more balanced relationship, a healthier mindset, and a more fulfilling life.
What is couples therapy?
Couples therapy or couples counselling is a professional process aimed at understanding and improving both of your emotional and psychological well-being.
Through regular, confidential sessions, both of you will explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to gain deeper self-awareness.
I use evidence-based approaches and therapeutic techniques tailored to each client’s unique needs.
By fostering trust, empathy, and open communication, couples therapy will help you both develop healthier coping strategies and more fulfilling relationships.
Over tid kan dette støttende miljø føre til varig personlig vækst, indre styrke og større tilfredshed med livet.
Psychotherapist or psychologist?
En psykoterapeut er en bred betegnelse for en professionel, der er trænet i forskellige former for terapi til at håndtere følelsesmæssige og psykologiske udfordringer. Psykologer har ofte en doktorgrad i psykologi og arbejder med forskning, testning og vurdering, mens psykoterapeuter kan have forskellige uddannelsesmæssige baggrunde som socialt arbejde, rådgivning eller ægteskabs- og familieterapi.
Psykologer kan også tilbyde psykoterapi, men deres uddannelse inkluderer ofte en stærk vægt på klinisk vurdering og diagnostiske færdigheder.
Psykoterapeuter fokuserer primært på at tilbyde et trygt og støttende miljø, hvor klienter kan udforske deres følelser, tanker og adfærd.
Valget mellem en psykoterapeut og en psykolog afhænger i sidste ende af dine mål, arten af dine bekymringer og den form for støtte, du føler dig mest tryg ved.
Can I bring my partner to therapy?
Ja, mange vælger at tage deres partner med til terapissessioner. Parterapi tilbyder et struktureret miljø, hvor I begge kan dele jeres oplevelser, forbedre kommunikationen og arbejde sammen mod gensidig forståelse.
Ved at deltage sammen får I begge indsigt i dynamikken i forholdet og lærer værktøjer til at løse konflikter. Terapeuten guider samtalen og sikrer, at begge parter føler sig hørt og respekteret.
At tage din partner med kan i sidste ende styrke jeres bånd, fremme empati og skabe sundere måder at relatere til hinanden på.
Can we talk with Mark outside sessions?
Generally, the therapy process is contained within scheduled sessions to maintain clear boundaries and ensure focused, productive work. While brief communication may be possible between sessions—for example, to reschedule an appointment—extended discussions or therapeutic work usually occur only during the allotted time. This helps preserve the integrity of the therapeutic relationship and prevents confusion about roles and expectations.
Hvis der opstår presserende sager uden for sessionstid, kan vi drøfte muligheder som nødopkald eller ekstra aftaler for at sikre, at du får den rette støtte.
At opretholde professionelle grænser hjælper med at skabe en stabil og pålidelig ramme for din personlige vækst og heling.
Couples therapy in Copenhagen K
Right in the middle of Copenhagen K, just 300 meters from Nørreport Station, and 300 meters from Kongens Nytorv Metro Station.
My clinic is situated right in the centre of Copenhagen K, in the so-called “Indre By”.
In my warm, inviting space in Copenhagen, where couples therapy is delivered with care by an experienced couples therapist and compassionate couples counselor who truly understands the journey of love.
As a dedicated couples counsellor, I offer personalized relational therapy sessions to help you rebuild trust and intimacy.
Recognizing the unique challenges of living abroad, I also provide expat couples therapy and an expat couples therapist service tailored to your distinct needs.
Ultimately, every step of your relationship journey is met with care, support, and expert guidance in the heart of Copenhagen.
Practical details about your first session with Mark
Your first session of couples therapy is an opportunity to get to know each other and set the foundation for your work together.
Under denne session vil vi drøfte jeres forholdshistorie, nuværende udfordringer og jeres mål for terapien.
It’s a chance for both partners to speak openly, and for me to understand your dynamic and how best to support you.
Vi vil også gennemgå praktiske detaljer som tidsplanlægning, fortrolighed og hvordan terapien vil fungere.
Målet er at skabe et trygt og behageligt rum, hvor I begge kan begynde processen med heling og vækst.
Mark’s background and education
I am Mark Colclough, a British-born couples therapist and psychotherapist offering Danish and English-language therapy in Denmark.
My educational journey includes a solid foundation in psychology and counseling, with advanced training in evidence-based therapeutic modalities for individuals and couples.
Gennem årene har jeg arbejdet med klienter fra mange forskellige nationaliteter, hvilket har givet mig indsigt i de komplekse måder, kultur, identitet og livsovergange påvirker vores relationer på.
By integrating methods from 20 years of University training and supervised experience, and by using research-backed techniques, I tailor my approach to each couple’s unique needs and goals.
Min forpligtelse til løbende professionel udvikling sikrer, at jeg altid er opdateret med de nyeste resultater inden for psykologisk forskning. Dette gør mig i stand til at tilbyde medfølende og velinformeret støtte til par, der søger meningsfuld forandring.
How do we book and pay for a crisis couples therapy?
I strive to make the booking and payment process as convenient as possible.
Simply use the booking form on this page. After you have pre-booked what you need, I will get back to you in payment details and a final confirmation, ensuring a smooth and straightforward experience.
Sessions can be paid for using cash, credit card, MobilePay, or bank transfer.
I will give you an invoice, or receipt, no matter how you pay.
If you have any questions or concerns at all, feel free to contact me.
Confidentiality and general guidelines
Your privacy and comfort are essential to our therapeutic work together.
Everything discussed in our sessions is held in strict confidence, in accordance with professional ethical standards and legal requirements.
Any exceptions to confidentiality – such as risk of serious harm to yourself or others – will be explained clearly.
I encourage open communication about any worries, questions, or concerns you may have during the therapeutic process.
Mit mål er at skabe et trygt og respektfuldt miljø, hvor du frit kan udforske dine tanker og følelser.
How long does a crisis couples session take?
How do we reschedule or cancel?
Life can be unpredictable, and I understand that plans change. If you need to cancel or reschedule a session, please let me know as soon as possible — and at least 3 business days in advance.
Aftaler, der aflyses med kortere varsel, kan pålægges et afbudsgebyr, da tiden er reserveret specifikt til dig.
Jeg er glad for at drøfte eventuelle bekymringer omkring tidsplanlægning, så vi kan finde en løsning, der respekterer både dine behov og min tilgængelighed.
Can we get our money back?
Payment for therapy sessions is typically non-refundable once the session has taken place.
If you have concerns about your experience, I encourage you to discuss them with me so we can address any issues and find a way forward.
For forudbetalte sessioner eller pakkeforløb kan refunderinger overvejes fra sag til sag, afhængigt af omstændighederne og de aftaler, der er indgået på forhånd.
Hvis du har spørgsmål om gebyrer, refunderinger eller andre økonomiske forhold, er du altid velkommen til at kontakte mig, så vi kan afklare detaljerne.
